Pull up to da Club, Gas Tank on E, but all Drinks on Me: Grown A** Budgeting

At this point me and my circle of friends converse about different subjects. Important subjects like finances and budgeting come up often. Why? Because we are twenty somethings deep into our careers and ain’t, I repeat, are not striving to be on the struggle bus. We are striving to be debt free, shine, travel, sparkle,…

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Stove Top Mac or Oven Mac ?

First of all, I’m pretty sure I have the best man in the world. His love is so inspirational. I don’t know how the rest of the world lives without him. Sucks for ya, because you can’t have him. He’s mine, but that’s neither here nor there. What makes our relationship great, however, is the…

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I’m Pregnant and My Life is Over!

I’m pregnant and my life is over. At least that’s how some family members and peers see the news. Let me tell you something. Growing up the word “pregnancy” was next to a curse word. It’s wild. At almost 30 and flourishing in my career(s), pregnancy is still a curse word that needs to be…

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The Truth about Living in God’s Perfect will

It is a very known prayer and hope for Christians and believers to ask to live in God’s perfect will. According to this doctrine, God has a will and purpose for our lives before we even take our first breaths. In my training as a believer, I was taught at a young age to pray…

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Not Happiness. No to Pain: How Decision Making Led me to a Better Life

The issue with depending on things happening is shit may never happen. My hair may never grow. I may never get a man. I may never like my big toe. I may never get over how my father/mother/aunt/colonel Sanders was never there. Despite the hold for these happenstances, life still goes on, and so we must choose to have inner peace, joy, and security within ourselves.

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